We never see it coming.

Most of us usually never see it coming. It comes unexpected and then it’s too late to leave. Some of us become engaged to the person who abuses us the most. Then we don’t know what to do. My fiance didn’t show any signs of an abusive personality. After we got engaged he changed into a total different person. He started to tell me to not leave the house without his permission, asking for all the numbers of my friends and family. He just started acting really weird. I didn’t pay it any mind because I thought he was just looking out for me, making sure I was safe. One day I had a friend who needed my help picking out paint for her new house and when I went to leave he was sleep. So I left without telling him. I didn’t come back for like 3 hours and when I came threw the door he was standing there with an upset look on his face. Then I realized I shouldn’t have done that. I asked him what was wrong; he walked up to me and smacked me across the face. After that he started to hit me with his fist. When he was done he left and told me to clean myself up and have dinner done. I laid there thinking it was my fault and that how can he protect me if I don’t tell him where I’m going. After a couple of hours he returned with flowers and a card saying I’m sorry. He said that he didn’t know what came over him and that it would never happen again. I forgave him and we ate dinner and watch movies all night.